
WHAT YOU WILL HEAR
My guest for The Happy Hour # 247 is Alia Joy. Alia is an author and speaker who believes the darkness is illuminated when we grasp each other's hand and walk into the night together. Alia writes poignantly about her life with bipolar disorder as well as grief, faith, marriage, poverty, race, embodiment, and keeping fluent in the language of hope. She lives in Oregon with her husband, her mother, her three kids, a dog, a bunny, and a bunch of chickens.
In Alia's book, Glorious Weakness, she puts forth the question, “What if weakness was a spiritual gift?” and you guys, I am so thankful to Alia for coming on the show. Her message is so important and brings great insight into mental illness. Alia shares her story that includes dark places such as abuse, leukemia at age 5, her brother's attempted suicide and her own struggle with suicidal ideation, and her diagnosis with bipolar disorder at age 30. Alia tells us how God made Himself known to her during thoughts of suicide and how He brings hope amidst the struggles she still deals with today. We also talk about when the church treats mental illness as sin and how it can push people to feel as though they must keep it private and alone. I appreciated hearing Alia speak about specific ways we can ask how to best walk alongside those living with mental illness, and that we need to start with having compassion built into mental illness like we have compassion for other illnesses. We also discuss what it's been like parenting her children, and that God loves us in our weakness, meets us in our brokenness, and how that's taught her and her children that “no one is going to meet them the way God can.”
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LINKS FROM THE SHOW
- Alia's Website
- Glorious Weakness: Discovering God in All We Lack
- What Alia's loving: the Voxer app, her new favorite quick meal (rice, Kewpie mayo, Spam, Sriracha, furikake)
- What Alia's reading: The Reckless Way of Love by Dorothy Day, A Book of Uncommon Prayer by Brian Doyle, Placemaker by Christie Purifoy, The Atlas of Reds and Blues by Devi S. Laskar
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- If You Only Knew
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It took me FOREVER to make it through this podcast because I kept rewinding it. It’s that good! What really resonated with me was the “gun cabinet” … nope no spoilers from me. Alia’s husband’s response was my response to my mother’s death by suicide at when I was seven. I spent my entire life angry and bitter consciously and subconsciously about how selfish I perceived her act to be. I vowed I would never (never say never) do that to the people I love. That was until I was body slammed and cracked wide open by my own mental health crisis. It’s unreal the things the mind can conceive when you’re hurting and desperately looking for a way out. It’s only now that I can imagine what she must have been going through and felt. It’s true no one chooses it. Until we have a greater understanding it’s easy to believe that our loved one chose to leave us.
Alia, thank you so much for sharing in such a vulnerable and heartfelt way. This podcast has helped me to realize that though I do spend a fair amount of time talking about mental health and the church… 1. I rarely talk about them together and 2. I tend to hide behind only sharing my mother’s challenges. I can’t wait to read your book!
This podcast has encouraged me to speak more about my day to day challenges with depression and anxiety in hopes that it will also help others to not feel so alone in this.
Jamie, thank you for giving this important discussion a platform and I adore you and your willingness to not only want to learn more but to admit you don’t know enough (yet).